Looking back on my past posts and the most popular one seems to be the one where I talk about people having some kind of life check list of things that they should be doing etc. Well what can we say about that? Everyone seems to feel the pressure of life. I would say modern life but that wouldn't be correct, I think these types of pressure have been there since the beginning, like "Keeping up with the Jones'". A term I also find highly amusing as my sister and her family are the Jones' and I would be exhausted and bankrupt if I tried keeping up with them considering we only really have one proper income coming into our house. Anyway remember like a wise woman once told me "Comparison is the Death of Joy". People should concentrate on living and enjoying their own lives otherwise they're going to miss out on what is truely in front of them. I think women have an extraordinary amount of pressure put upon them. From keeping a perfect home (st
I can't do my positive birth story about Tegan and not do my one about Anwen. It is so true what they say that every birth is different and you should try not to think too much about other people's experience. Anwen was completely different to Tegan. My pregnancy this time round I found a lot harder. I think this was down to being older but also because I had a toddler to look after at the same time. Also when I was 5 months pregnant, Tegan decided that she no longer needed an afternoon nap, this I found very exhausting as it was a time I could have really done with. I also never thought that at nearly full term I would be scrabbling up a soft play to rescue Tegan who had got scared. I also seemed to ache more, but you're not getting as much rest as when you're pregnant with your first. I was very conscious that I wanted to capture all the mile stones through my pregnancy like I did with Tegan as not to treat them differently. Both my daughters were planne